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FREQUENT & OCCASIONALLY STUPID QUESTIONS

WHAT IS SWINGING? Swinging primarily is consenting adults engaged in sexual activity with other consenting adults. Normally, it's married or committed couples engaged in activity with other couples. Many people are curious or experiment with the idea. For those of us who make it a regular practice, it is a unique lifestyle. Although swinging is still considered an alternative lifestyle, we are gaining more mainstream acceptance every year. Besides parties, there are conferences and conventions to cover every aspect of swinging. The swinging lifestyle, or The Lifestyle, as we call it, is not for everybody.

WHO SWINGS? Primarily it is a couples activity, but single people can do it too. Most clubs are limited to couples and single females. Very few clubs are open to single males, and for good reason. Many people in the lifestyle have advanced degrees including Ph.D's and earn above average incomes. People from all walks of life participate in the lifestyle at some level. Even educators, members of the clergy, and elected public officials.

WHY SWING? If you enjoy sex, and know how to enjoy life in general, this might be for you. If you are secure in yourself, and your relationship this can be a great thing. Be aware that if you have major issues with insecurity or jealousy, or you're relationship is rocky, you might not want to do this. 

WHERE IS IT? Wouldn't you like to know? We screen people through in person interviews.  The only way you can attend one of our parties is after we personally interview you. Like we said before, swinging is not for everybody, and our club is not for every swinger.

I’M A SINGLE GUY, CAN I COME? No. Our events are open to couples and single females.

I’M A SINGLE GUY WHO CAN GET A DATE, CAN I COME THEN? No. Getting a date just for the sake of getting into a party is a practice called “ticketing”, which is generally frowned on.

I'M A MARRIED MAN, CAN I COME WITHOUT MY WIFE? No! The foundation of the lifestyle is honesty. There is a big difference between swinging and cheating. If you can't be honest with your partner, you can't be honest with us.

HOW DO I GET MY WIFE/GIRLFRIEND INTO THIS? If we knew, we'd be millionaires. Either they are open to the idea or they are not. If not, there's really nothing you can do about it. You can't force someone to do this. And women who do it just to please their partner are warned that is the wrong way to approach this. If the both of you are not openly going into this with free will, you will regret it later. Trust us on that.

DO YOU KNOW ANY BEAUTIFUL SINGLE BI-SEXUAL WOMEN YOU CAN INTRODUCE US TO? Yes and no. Yes, we know some, no, we're not going to introduce you to them.  Most men approach this with the idea they'll get their threesome fantasy fulfilled. The reality is far different. We host parties, we're not matchmakers. Try one of the on-line matchmaking services if you are looking for specific types of people.

WHAT HAPPENS AT A PARTY? IS IT ONE BIG ORGY? If you really want to know, you have to go. It's that simple. What happens or doesn't happen is entirely up to you. Never at anytime should anyone ever feel obliged to do anything they are not comfortable with.

HOW COME IT'S SO DIFFICULT FOR SINGLE GUYS TO GET INVOLVED? For starters, there are way more men who want to do this than couples looking for a single male, and even fewer single females specifically looking for a swing partner. What's a single guy to do? Do like the rest of us and get into a committed relationship. Sometimes a single guy will get a date just to get into a party. This is a practice called "ticketing" and is generally frowned upon.

HOW MUCH IS IT AND HOW COME WE HAVE TO PAY? Our philosophy is simple, if you want to play, you have to pay. Website, phone, advertising, food, etc., it cost money and takes time to throw parties. You aren't so much being charged as being asked to share in the cost. If you can't share in the cost of a hotel suite and food, why would I share my partner, which is far more valuable?

WHERE CAN I MEET SWINGERS? The best place is at an organized event. People have been screened, and are there for the same reason as you. To relax and have fun. Meeting on line and through personals can work with varying degrees of success, but by far the best way is at an organized event.

WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN AN ON PREMISE AND OFF PREMISE EVENT? Off premise events,  activities like a hike or bowling are geared to be strictly social in nature and is how we screen people before inviting them to attend an on premise events. In general, our off premise events are held at nightclubs or bars, or other public venue. Our on premise events are private, and invitation only.

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